Perfect Life Partner Tips


Dear Friend,

Here is your Find Your Perfect Life Partner tip number forty six.

What if Mr. or Ms. Wrong seems alright right now?

Life Partner Tip 46. How To Ensure You Don’t Get In Too Deep Till YOU Are Ready

There you are, the mood is right, the timing is good and he or she is available and interested. But, your intuition is screaming no, this is the wrong one! Don’t do it!!

What do you do? Walk away? Run away? Feign illness?

Well if you keep your senses you can enjoy the company, have fun and even if normally would ‘fall for’ a person in those conditions with the three scientifically tested tips below you will be sure you won’t loose your cool and make a serious life partner mistake.

1. Break eye contact! Better yet don’t even look at the person’s eyes at all just keep your eye on the forehead instead. The person will feel like heard but you won’t be sucked in by eye contact. Scientific studies using complete strangers found that if participants gazed directly into the eyes of the person they had been matched up with for the test that they would feel 38% more attracted after the test was complete. Even if they normally would never associate with person like that. So, rule number one to not falling for the wrong person is break eye contact.


2. Imagination situation. When you first meet a person you will intuitively notice certain things that don’t work for you. Science has shown that the mind can not tell the difference between imagination and reality. When athletes practice a sport in the mind only they showed the same or greater improvement than athletes who actually did the exercise. So when you meet the person and you think, “Uh oh. I might like this guy/girl but...” Focus on anything that doesn’t work or fit your ideal partner. For instance if not smoking is a must for you then if they smoke imagine being with them 10 years from now when they are on oxygen and can’t leave the house because of waiting for a lung transplant. Result you will feel less connection and your head will stay clear.


3.Celebrate celibacy. Tests of couples have shown that a mans vital fluids contain the three powerful neuro-transmitter hormones testosterone, oestrogene and serotonin. All of which are found in large amounts in people who are in love. So if you want to maintain your emotional freedom, your ability to make rational choices and your clarity of mind. Avoid sex! Study after study shows that men and women who otherwise don’t like each other feel more ‘in love,’ attracted and connected when they have sex together. So maybe there is something to this celibacy thing after all!

So now that you know how to avoid Mr. or Ms. Wrong how do you choose Mr. or Ms. Right? One way is compatibility and science has helped us there too! Check out these three different life partner sites who use science to match up potential partners. Match.com Chemistry.com and PerfectMatch.com. I suggest creating a setting up a logon and doing the personality assessments found on each one even if you never plan to use the site for dating. Why? Because the science behind these assessments is very interesting and you may well be shocked at the accuracy of these tools. Its free and you learn tons about yourself at the same time. Next week I will share the results of MY profile. That should be interesting... ;)

To your success!

Sasha

By: Sasha F.P. LeBaron
Sasha is the founder of www.FindYourPerfectLifePartner.com an author and life coach. He lives on the west coast of British Columbia Canada with his life partner Amy. When not helping people find their perfect life partner he enjoys mountain biking and photography.

P.S. You can grab your very own copy of the Find Your Perfect Life Partner System today right here at www.findyourperfectlifepartner.com



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