Here is your Find Your Perfect Life Partner tip number twenty four.
To really be successful in life partner love, work and play and be like other successful people of all kinds you must be exicted about...
Life Partner Tip 24. Gasp... Selling Yourself! Or "Not Leaving Anything Up To Chance!"
In fact if you dig just a little deeper, people are put off by "going for it" because they face rejection when they attempt it. And because being rejected can be one of the most unpleasant things anyone can experience people wish to avoid it at all costs.
A little bit of honesty on this topic would be refreshing:
"Sharing what is good about myself and risking rejection is terrifying to me, therefore it's a bad thing. I wouldn't be caught dead "selling" myself in a life partner interaction, and in fact those who do are clearly missing the whole point because its supposed to be “natural”."
Well, maybe not that extreme, but something along those lines!
You'd think that people who are looking for a life partner would be somewhat
beyond this view and of course, many successfully partnered people are.
They understand that putting the best foot forward in a passionate way
is simply an opportunity to share the value they offer to the world.