Perfect Life Partner Tips

Dear Friend,

Here is your Find Your Perfect Life Partner tip number twenty.

So there you are, you have landed that all important first date but wait! You don't know...

Life Partner Tip 20. What men really want on a great first date.

OK. OK! I know what you might be thinking right now and scientifically speaking, women want it just as much! And we are talking about men who are looking for a life partner not a one night stand.


1. Good Manners
No crude jokes, knuckle cracking or bodily functions please!

2. Just Relax
Dates are fun! Remember? Be yourself, keep it light and breathe!

3. A Good Listener
No surprise here. Everyone loves a good listener. Especially when talking about work!

4. Openness
Keep any judgemental thoughts to yourself on the first date. There is a time and place for picking things apart but not on the first meeting!

5. Good Conversation
Jump in with what you are passionate about, keep the conversation flowing with a give and take and ask open ended questions if it seems to be getting stale.

6. Attention
All men want to feel manly so don't go eyeing up the hot waiter boy while out with your prospective life partner on the first date! Show your interest with good eye contact and a touch or two.

7. Thank You!
We men like to be recognized for our hunting and gathering skills, (finding the perfect restaurant) so when the night is ending say, “Thank you”!

The Bottom Line:

Now you have a great little check list for how to get to a real man's heart. Of course the above tips assume that you have already weeded out any guys who are just out for "a good time" and that you are with a potential life partner. So, when the moment is right, the sparks are flying and things are going great. Ask him out! Because as a man I can tell you that one of the things I love most is when my life partner is when she takes charge!

To Your Success!

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By: Sasha F.P. LeBaron
Sasha is the founder of an author and life coach. He lives on the west coast of British Columbia Canada with his life partner Amy. When not helping people find their perfect life partner he enjoys mountain biking and photography.

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